Saluting veterans always matters, even after they are gone.
Dan Hettinger • November 11, 2024

What veteran are you honoring today.

The Navy Honor Guard beautifully rendered military honors at the funeral I officiated at Fort Logan Military Cemetery in Denver.

On a beautiful November morning, the sound of Taps stirred melancholy feelings as the Sailors, standing straight and serious held the flag tightly. Meticulously each fold was made. Precisely placed between the Sailor's hands the flag was ready for presentation to the eldest daughter.

One one knee, loud enough for everyone to hear, but with a gentle voice and sincere expression, he said,
"On behalf of a President of the United States, the U.S. Navy and a proud nation, we are thankful for your father's service our country." It was a challenge to fight back the tears. 

My favorite veteran, a POW from WWII after being shot down from a B17 on his 28th mission over Germany is pictured above. Dad is the second from the right on the bottom row. 

Some day, I'm going to find a way to give my dad the honor he is due.


My Dad deserved similar honors, but my brother and I were handling arrangements from out of state and my elderly mother was barely processing his death. Their Pastor didn't seem to know this was available and the mortuary in Pennsylvania did a minimal job.

At the Denver Hospice, Cornelius E. Jones, Sr. was coming to the end of his earthly life. Chaplain Brian Tidd discovered that he had not received all the honors he deserved during the Korean War. Chaplain Brian wanted to make sure Cornelius received what he earned. After much effort he had the very special honor to, in uniform and with military honors, on behalf of President Barack Obama to an African-American soldier, present two bronze stars and one United Nations medal that were earned 61 years earlier. Unable to open his eyes, or speak, Mr. Jones lifted his hand and whispered, "Thank you." 

Today, on November 11,  Veterans day, care for a veteran by remembering he or she served. Your salute will mean a great deal to the Veterans that you know. Even if he or she is no longer with us, the honor is appropriate.

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