Caring In The Holidays--2 Ideas, Request Your Blue Christmas Service Script.
Dan Hettinger • November 21, 2021

The holidays provide unique needs and opportunities.

CARDS FOR CAREGIVERS

This year cards are of greater value than ever. Texts, emails and sending an e-card have their time and place. But, there is nothing like the tactile experience of receiving an envelope in the mail, holding it in your hands, ripping open the envelope, pulling out a card, seeing a beautiful picture and opening it to find a handwritten message of affirmation and care. It brings light to a dark mood and refreshes a tired soul.

There is a critical need among caregivers this holiday season. The challenges of caregiving have been extreme, made complicated and dangerous by nearly two years of Covid. 

This week, I asked Jonathan, one of the owners of Home Care Assistance of Douglas County, if he thought his 50 Caregivers would appreciate receiving a card, not from their boss, nor from the people who depend on their care, but from a community who recognizes and appreciates their efforts, sacrifices, dedication and compassion. "I think they would love it, even if is only addressed to 'a compassionate caregiver.'"

A card will reveal that you invested time, thought and a little money to make sure a caregiver has the opportunity to feel valued when they read, "Who you are and what you do matters. Your work requires energy, skill and compassion. Thank you for pouring yourself out to care for those in need."

Here are a few places you and your care ministry can send cards and meet a need: Home Care Assistance, a Skilled Nursing Facility, a Memory Care Home, a Hospital, a Homeless Shelter, the County Human Services Department...

BLUE CHRISTMAS

Mountainview Christian Church, where I have served as Pastor of Congregational Care, for the last five years has hosted a Blue Christmas Service for people who have endured a loss and are feeling grief during the holidays. 

Usually between 35-50 attend this intimate service, gathered around the fireplace in the Great Room (aka--Fellowship Hall}. 

Would anyone attend an online version? With Covid spikes at the end of 2020, we asked that question as we planned an interactive online service. Our attendance tripled!

In addition to grieving the death of a loved one there has also been loss from divorce, unemployment, financial setbacks, missed events due to Covid, sickness, loss of peace and calm from social and political injustice and unrest. Everyone is in some degree of grief for some reason.

The Blue Christmas Service celebrates Jesus' birth into a world of darkness, on a dark night into a dark and dirty place to bring his love, joy, hope and peace to the dark and dirty places of our lives. Do you want a Blue Christmas Service script? Email me at bestcareministry@gmail.com.

Care ministry is caring for people in their times of need. The holidays provide unique opportunities to help people feel valued and cared for.

Have you got an idea to share? Send it to me at bestcareministry@gmail.com.

When we care for people in these ways it matters.

Your life matters, 

Chaplain Dan
Rev. Daniel R. Hettinger
303.905.0478


By Dan Hettinger April 19, 2025
Things looked terribly wrong on Friday and Saturday.
By Dan Hettinger April 11, 2025
It is one of the most powerful forces in the world!
By Dan Hettinger April 4, 2025
Looking for some relief? Want to provide some relief?
By Dan Hettinger March 22, 2025
And it is better than we can even imagine.
By Dan Hettinger February 22, 2025
It is always good to appreciate and care for caregivers.
By Dan Hettinger February 14, 2025
The effect is measurable!
By Dan Hettinger February 8, 2025
We don't need to change the world. We need to care for people in the world. Then the world will change.
By Dan Hettinger January 25, 2025
"You need to see oncology tomorrow."
By Dan Hettinger January 18, 2025
Caring expands our theology.
By Dan Hettinger December 6, 2024
Let the light of the manger shine into your New Year. He makes it possible for sorrow and joy to live together in our lives so that we experience hope, joy, peace and love.
More Posts